Luyintoni unxulumano phakathi kokukopela kunye nokuba ngabemi bangaphambili? Ukubekwa kwinqanaba leeprefecture zokuqhatha

Kumajelo osasazo afana neendaba zokukhohlisa kunye nemidlalo yeqonga, ukukopela nokuqhatha kudla ngokuthethwa njengento embi, kodwa eneneni, baninzi abantu ababandakanyeka ekuqhatheni eJapan. Iingxaki zokuqhatha azisekho kubantu abadumileyo kuphela, kodwa sele ziyingxaki yasekuhlaleni enokwenzeka nakubani na.

"Ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi abangakwaziyo ukugqithisa ukukopela / ukungathembeki, abantu abaninzi bakhohlisa phi?"
Abanye abantu banombuzo kwaye bazame ukulungiselela kwangaphambili ukuphepha ukuqhathwa. Ngoko ke, elona nyathelo lokuthintela lidla ngokunqanda ukuthandana nabantu abanezinga eliphezulu lokukopela.

Ke, ngaba unokuqikelela ngenene ireyithi yokukopela yomnye umntu ngokusekelwe kummandla wabo? Ukuze kwaneliswe umdla womntu wonke, iSagami Rubber Industry Co., Ltd. yaqala uphando olubizwa ngokuba yi "Sex in Japan" ngoJanyuwari 2013, uphando malunga ne14,000 yabantu baseJapan abasuka kwiingingqi ezingama-47 malunga nezimo zabo zesini. Kukwakho nerenki yesithili yenani labantu abaqhathayo, ke nceda ujonge kuyo.

Izinga lokukopela ngokwesithili

Uphando lweSagami Rubber Industry Survey ibandakanya imiba emininzi enento yokwenza nesondo ngaphandle kwamazinga okuqhatha, ngoko ke ukuba unomdla kwisini saseJapani, nceda undwendwele iwebhusayithi esemthethweni ethi ``Isondo saseJapani'' ngolwazi oluthe kratya.

UShimane ngoyena uphakamileyo kwaye uAkita ngoyena uphantsi

Kukho umahluko ongaphezu kwe-10% phakathi kweShimane Prefecture kwindawo ye-1 kunye ne-Akita Prefecture kwindawo ye-47. Ngaba izinga lokukopela linento yokwenza neempawu ze-prefectural? Kukho ingxoxo eninzi kwi-intanethi malunga nezinga lokungathembeki kolu phando. Abantu abaninzi bayifumana ingumnqa into yokuba umntu om-1 usuka kwiSithili saseShimane, ngoko ke abanye abantu bacinga ukuba kungaphezulu `kuvavanyo lwesakhono sokuxoka'' kune ``uvavanyo lwezinga lokuqhatha.''

Kuyinyani ukuba amadoda nabafazi abavela kwiSithili saseShimane baziwa njengodidi oluphantsi nolunzulu, kwaye kulula ukucinga ukuba abatyekelanga ekuqhatheni. I-Akita Prefecture, ekwindawo yama-47, sisithili esaziwa ngokuba nabafazi abaninzi abahle, ngoko ke iyamangalisa into yokuba inelona zinga lisezantsi lokuqhatha.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba amadoda nabafazi baseShimane Prefecture bayiphendule imibuzo yophando ngokunyaniseka, ngoko bayamkela into yokuba babeqhatha ngokuphandle kunabanye?

Kutheni izinga lokuqhatha liphezulu ezilalini kunasezidolophini?

ITokyo, ebithathwa njengesona sixeko silula ukuqhatha, iphume kwindawo yesi-5. Imimandla yaseKyoto kunye ne-Osaka, enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo njengondoqo wengingqi yaseKansai, ayibekwanga phezulu kakhulu. Kukwaxoxiwe ukuba izinga lokuqhatha phakathi kwamadoda namakhosikazi ezilalini liphezulu kunasezidolophini.

Kukho uluvo lokuba ``Ezilalini, azikho ezinye izinto ezininzi ezenziwayo, kwaye alikho ixesha elininzi lokusebenza, ngoko ke abahlali basemaphandleni banemicimbi yokufuna uvuselelo.'' Xa sele nditshilo, baninzi abantu abangazithembiyo malunga nokuqhatha ubudlelwane kwaye bacinge nje ngabo njengento yokuzonwabisa.

Ngendlela, olu luhlu lwezinga lokukopela ayiloluhlu nje lwamazinga okukopela ngokwesithili, kodwa noluhlu lwamazinga okukopela ngokwesini kunye nobudala.

Umlinganiselo wokungaqhathi

Ngokweziphumo zophando, phantse i-79% yabantu abaqhathi, ngelixa i-21% kuphela iyakopela, okuthetha ukuba umntu omnye kwabahlanu uyakopela. Kwaye kuloo 21%, i-15% ineqabane elinye eliqhathayo. Kukho inani elincinci labantu abanamaqabane amaninzi okukopela kunye nabo banamaqabane angachazwanga.

Ukuba ngumntu omnye kwabahlanu, ingxaki yokukopela eJapan inzima, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba kuthiwe akukho mntu ungakopelayo.

Isini somntu oqhathwayo

Kukho uluvo olunamandla lokuba ukukopa yinto eyenziwa ngamadoda. Ngokweziphumo zophando, kuyinyaniso ukuba i-10% yamadoda amaninzi ayakopa kunabasetyhini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukukopela kwendoda kufunyenwe, kunokwenzeka ukuba ixolelwe isithandwa sayo kunomfazi, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba amadoda avame ukwazisa abanye malunga nokukhohlisa kwabo kunabasetyhini.

Amandla acengayo omgangatho wokukopela

Abantu baseJapan ngabantu abalukhathaleleyo ukhetho lwabanye abantu, ngoko bathanda ukubeka yonke into. Noko ke, kwanaxa uphanda into ebangela iintloni njengokukopela, kunzima ukufumana iziphumo eziqinisekisayo. Kunokuba ugwebe utyekelo lwabanye abantu olusekelwe kwindawo abakuyo, zama ukuqonda iimpawu zokuqhatha abantu nokuqonda iingcamango zabanye abantu ngothando.