Badibana phi abantu abathandanayo nabathandanayo? ? Ipatheni yokudibana koMba

Kubonakala ngathi baninzi abantu abatshatileyo abanemicimbi, kodwa aba bantu babini badibana njani baze baqalise ubudlelwane bothando? Lo ngumbuzo obuzwa ngabantu abaninzi xa belixhoba lokuthandana kwaye bejongene nokungcatshwa kwesithandwa sabo. Especially umntu ojola naye ngumntu ongamaziyo okanye awunanto yanto nesithandwa sakho ngaphandle kwalento yothandana naye, kufuneka ulumke ngendlela isithandwa sakho esimkhangela ngayo umntu ojola naye.

Oku kubangelwa kukuba abantu abatshatileyo abanqwenela ukuba neentlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato abavele bathandane neqabane labo ngenxa yezizathu ezinjengothando xa beqala ukubonana, koko baba nobudlelwane namaqabane amaninzi akrexezayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ukuze banelise ukunganyaniseki kwabo. ugcinwe kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo waba nokuthandana. Ngokungafaniyo nabantu abakhe bathandana kanye kwaye bangaze baphinde bayenze, kuyafuneka ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi ukunyanga ``isifo'' kwabo bafumene umkhwa wokuthandana, kwaye ukuba awufuni. umhla onjalo uhlobo lomntu, qala kwangethuba.Kungcono ukujonga umnqweno wesithandwa sakho ukukopela. Ukusukela ngoku, ndiza kuzisa iindawo zokuhlangana abantu abafuna ukuthandana badla ngokujolisa kuzo, ngoko ke nceda ubhekisele koku kwaye uyisebenzise ngelixa uphanda ubuqhetseba.

Umzekelo wendlela abathandana ngayo kunye namaqabane omtshato

ukudibana emsebenzini

Xa kufikwa kumba wokuqhatha nokulalana ngaphandle komtshato, uninzi lwazo ziindibano zasemsebenzini. Abantu abathandanayo bafuna ixesha lokuthandana ukuze bathandane nomntu abathandana naye, ngoko ke abantu abaninzi bakhetha ukujola ngaphakathi enkampanini kwaye basebenzise umsebenzi njengethuba lokuthandana. Emva kokukhetha iqabane phakathi kwabo basebenza nabo, basebenzisa amathuba anjengokusebenza ixesha elongezelelekileyo, amatheko okusela, iihambo zenkampani, nohambo lwezoshishino ukuze baqhelane neqabane ngaphambi kokuba baqalise ubuhlobo. Ekubeni umntu othandana naye ulilungu lenkampani enye, abantu abakungqongileyo abayi kucinga ukuba yinto engaqhelekanga ukuba uya kumhla ukuya kwi-cafe kunye.

Ukudibana kwi-SNS

Kulula ukuba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni nabantu kwi-Intanethi ngokusebenzisa izixhobo zonxibelelwano ezinje ngoFacebook, Instagram, kunye noSkype. Abanye abantu basebenzisa indlela efanayo ukufumana iqabane lobudlelwane. Okokuqala, chonga into ojolise kuyo njengomfana obukekayo ebumelwaneni bakho okanye umama wekhaya onexesha elininzi lokukhululeka, emva koko wenze abahlobo ngokuthumela izicelo zobuhlobo kubantu abambalwa. Kwaye ngokuthumela, ukuphawula, kunye "nokuthanda" kwimidiya yoluntu yonke imihla, ukhulisa iimvakalelo zakho nomnye umntu. Ekugqibeleni, baqala ukuthandana ebomini bokwenyani kwaye babe sisibini esikrexezayo. Sihlala sinxibelelana kwi-Intanethi, kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha sidibana ebomini, siyathandana, sithathe uhambo ngaphandle komtshato, okanye sibe neentlobano zesini. Kuba omnye umntu akasoloko engumntu abathandana naye ebomini, abanye abantu bathandana namaqabane amaninzi nge-SNS.

Intlanganiso kwi ukuthandana sites/apps

Oku kuya kuba kukukrexeza. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukufumana umntu omthandayo usebenzisa ibhodi yebhulethi yokuthandana kwaye ujabulele ukuthandana kunye nesondo. Nge-Intanethi, kwanomama wekhaya ohlala ekhaya ixesha elininzi ngaphandle kokuya kuthenga unokufumana lula iqabane lothando alikhethileyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu abadibana nomntu ngale nkqubo banobudlelwane bexesha elilodwa, kodwa ukuba bacinga ukuba bahambelana ngokugqibeleleyo omnye komnye, kukho umngcipheko wokuba baya kuba sisibini esingathembekanga kwaye babe nobudlelwane obuhlala ixesha elide.

Ewe kona, abanye abantu bayafuna ukuba neentlobano zesini nothando, kodwa abafuni kuthandana nomntu otshatileyo okanye abathandanayo. Kwimeko enjalo, ukuze ukhethwe ngumntu ozikhethelayo kwaye udibane nabantu abaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka, abantu abatshatileyo banokuzenza abangatshatanga kwaye basondele kuwe ngothando.

umdlalo we-intanethi

Ukuba udlala umdlalo we-intanethi kunye nesithandwa sakho, ungaziva njani ukuba isithandwa sakho sithandana okanye sitshata nomnye umdlali ngelixa sidlala umdlalo? Abanye abantu bafumana oko kubizwa ngokuba "luthando lobuxoki" ngeenkqubo zothando / zomtshato kunye nencoko yasimahla / yesitikha esifumaneka kwiiMMORPGs kunye nemidlalo yentlalo. Ubudlelwane obuninzi obufanisiweyo buyinto nje yokuzonwabisa, kodwa akunakutshiwo ukuba kukho iimeko apho abantu ababini abonwabileyo beba nzulu kwaye baqalise ukuthandana.

Eyona nto kufuneka ulumkele kakhulu ayisiyiyo nje imidlalo ye-intanethi edlalwa kwikhompyuter yakho, kodwa ngoku ii-smartphones zisanda, imidlalo ye-smartphone yentlalo inokuba yindlela yokufumana iqabane lobudlelwane. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza uphando lokukhohlisa kwifowuni yesithandwa sakho, musa ukuluhoya uluhlu lwabahlobo kumdlalo we-smartphone.

PTA/Alumni Association

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuhlangabezana nokungathembeki. Ngamanye amaxesha isithandwa sakho sinokudibana neqabane lobudlelwane ngendlela ongenakuyicinga. Umzekelo, umntu uzenza ngathi unomdla kwimfundo yomntwana wakhe kwaye uzimasa isiganeko se-PTA, kodwa eneneni ajike i-PTA ibe yindawo yokuhlangana yobudlelwane. Kukwakho nomngcipheko wokuba baya kusebenzisa ukuhlangana kwakhona njengesizathu sokudibana nabalingane babo eklasini kwaye babe nobudlelwane kunye nowayesakuba yintombi yabo. Ngalo lonke ixesha isithandwa sakho sithatha inxaxheba kwi-PTA / alumni party yokusela okanye umsebenzi, uya kuba sengxakini ukuba uzama ukukufumana ukukopela kuwe ngokuthetha ngeenjongo zakho.

Yintoni PTAs kunye nemibutho alumni ezifanayo kukuba bonke abantu odibana nabo babaziyo, kwaye nabo bane-advantage yokuba abaninzi babo batshatile, ukuze ungabi naxhala malunga nokuba ungubani iqabane lakho, ngoko ke yinto enkulu. ithuba kubantu abafuna ukuthandana. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uzibophelele kubudlelwane, unokugweba ubuntu kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngumntu onomdla kuye ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo ebanjwe yi-PTA kunye ne-alumni association. Kwakhona, ukuze uthobe umlindo wakho, "○○ utata/umama" kunye "nomhlobo osuka kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo" nazo zizingxengxezo ezifanelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba awufuni ukuba umthandi wakho angathembeki, kufuneka uphaphe kwaye uthintele isithandwa sakho ukuba singakuqhathi ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.

Ukukopela uphando malunga nendlela yokudibana nomntu othandana naye

Emva kokuba uyayazi indlela yokuhlangabezana nokungathembeki, xa uphanda ukungathembeki, unokukhangela umthandi wakho "indlela yokungathembeki." Ungajonga i-LINE yesithandwa sakho, uthintele ii-apps zokuthandana kwi-smartphone yakho, kwaye ujonge imbali yokukhangela isikhangeli sakho ukuze ufumanise ukuba isithandwa sakho sikuqhatha njani, kwaye uthathe amanyathelo ngokufanelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuze kulungiswe ingxaki yokungathembeki, akuyimfuneko kuphela ukunciphisa iindlela abadibana ngazo, kodwa nokuphelisa umnqweno womthandi wokungathembeki. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ipsychology yokungathembeki kwesithandwa sakho kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho bothando.