Barika chii?
Vanhu vakawanda pavanofunga nezvewanano, vanofungidzira kubatana kwevaviri. Zvisinei, kune dzimwe nzira dzokuroorana, dzakadai sebarika.
Barika (barika) kureva hukama hwekuti munhu anenge akaroora kana kuroorwa nevanhu vakawanda. Kana mukadzi akaroora varume vanopfuura mumwe chete, inonzi "polyandry." Barika rinopesana nekuva nomudzimai mumwe, apo munhu anoroora mumwe chete.
Barika harisi pamutemo kana kukurudzirwa munzvimbo zhinji. Pane zviitiko apo barika risiri pamutemo zviri pachena. Zvisinei, guru. Bigamy (Bigamy) inyaya yekuti munhu akaroora anoroora mumwe munhu asingazive kuti mumwe wacho akatoroora.
Inotsanangura nhoroondo yebarika, marudzi ebarika, uye vanhu vanoita barika. Inokurukurawo zvinorehwa nezvakashata zveurongwa hwehukama hwakadaro.
Nhoroondo yebarika
Nenzira inofadza, kuva nomudzimai mumwe ipfungwa itsva zvikuru munhau yomunhu. Nzanga dzemazuva ano dzemumaguta dzisati dzaumbwa, barika ndiro rakanga riri muitiro mukuru.
Barika rave rakati checkered nhoroondo mumakore achangopfuura, asi mazana emakore apfuura vanhu vakawanda vakasarudza barika pane monogamy.
Mazuva ano, barika harichafarirwi munzanga dzakawanda uye rakarambidzwa zvachose munyika dzakawanda. Barika harisi pamutemo munyika dzakawanda, kusanganisira United States, Europe, China, neAustralia.
Mhando dzebarika
Panowanzove nemhando nhatu dzebarika: polyandry, polyandry, uye muchato weboka.
Barika
Polyandry imhando chaiyo ye polyandry umo murume mumwe anoroora vakadzi vakawanda. Iri izwi rinonyanya kushandiswa zvakafanana nebarika, sezvo riri iro rinonyanya kushandiswa papfungwa iyi.
polyandry
Mhando yebarika isinganyanyi kunyanyozivikanwa ndeye polyandry. Polyandry inguva apo mukadzi mumwe anoroora varume vanopfuura mumwe.
muchato weboka
Muchato weboka, sekureva kunoita izwi, muchato pakati pevarume nevakadzi vakawanda. Iyi imhando isingawanike yebarika.
Vamwe vangaona zviri pamusoro apa senzira yebarika, nepo vamwe vangazviona sepfungwa yaro. Uye mune dzimwe nguva, mazwi anoshandiswa zvakasiyana.
Maitiro ekuita barika
Barika harisi pamutemo munyika dzakawanda, saka avo vanoda kuita barika vanodzivisa kuroora kana kuroorwa nenzira yechivanhu vobva vasarudza kuita zvechivanhu.
polyamory
Barika rinowanzovhiringidzwa ne polyamory, asi munyika yanhasi, kuva nevadiwa vakawanda zvinogamuchirwa uye zviri pamutemo.
Polyamory iukama hwekuti vakaroorana vane vadikani vakawanda asi vasina kuroorana. Vese vakaroorana vanowanzozivana uye vanoziva kuti vari muhukama hwepolyamorous.
Kuti hukama hune hutano hwepolyamorous hushande, vese vakaroorana vanofanirwa kuve vakasununguka uye vakatendeseka kune mumwe nemumwe.
Barika rinotenderwa kuMiddle East nedzimwe nzvimbo dzeAsia. Haibvumirwi munzvimbo dzakawanda dzeAfrica chete, asi inoshandiswa zvakanyanya, kunyanya muWest Africa. Barika rinogamuchirwa munzvimbo dzeMuslim-zhinji dzeWest Africa. Maererano nedzidziso yechiIslam, murume anobvumirwa kuva nevakadzi vanosvika vana.
Migumisiro yebarika
Kwemakore akawanda, pave paine gakava pamusoro pemigumisiro yebarika munzanga. Zvazvakanakira nezvazvakaipira zvinowanzoitirana nharo, uye pane nharo dzezvose.
Vamwe vanhu vanofunga kuti barika rinotyora kodzero dzevanhukadzi.
Maererano neUnited Nations Human Rights Committee, barika rinotyora chiremerera chevakadzi uye rinofanirwa kubviswa chero kwariri. Vanodavira kuti munzvimbo dzinoitwa barika, rusununguko rwevakadzi rwekusarudza runotyorwa.
Mumatunhu ane barika, vakadzi vanowanzomanikidzwa kuroorwa nevarume vavasina chishuwo chekuroora. Mitemo inobvumira barika inowanzorerekera kuvarume. Somuenzaniso, mutemo weSharia mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzokuWest Africa unobvumira varume kuva nevakadzi vakawanda, asi kwete vakadzi.
Vamwe vanhu vanofunga kuti barika rakanakira vana.
Nekune rimwe divi, vamwe vanopikisa kuti barika rinobvumira mhuri huru. Ongororo diki yakaitwa kuTanzania muna 2015 yakaratidza kuti madzimai nevana vari mudzimba dzine barika vanogona kuve neutano hwakanaka uye hupfumi hunobatsira.
mazano ebarika
Ichokwadi kuti hukama hwebarika uye hwebarika hwakaoma kupfuura hukama hwechinyakare hwemukadzi mumwe. Saka kana uri kufunga barika munzvimbo inotenderwa, kana kuti barika munzvimbo isingatenderwi kuroora kana kuroora kana kuroorwa vakawanda, pane zvinhu zvaunofanira kufunga kuti uchengetedze hukama hwakanaka uye huri pachena.
Heano mamwe mazano.
- Yeresa zvakanakira nekuipira kwevanogona kufambidzana navo usati wapinda mubarika kana barika. Hukama hwese hune zvahwakanakira nekuipira, asi sarudzo ndeyekuti iwe nemumwe wako mungafare here.
- Dzidzira tsika yekukurukurirana pachena. Kukurukurirana pachena kwakakosha kuhukama hune hutano, hwemurume mumwe chete kana kuti kwete. Asi zvakakosha muhukama hwebarika.
- Zvibvunze kana rudzi urwu rwehukama rwakakunakira iwe. Zvibvunze kuti unonzwa sei pamusoro pekuzvipira kune vanhu vanopfuura mumwe uye zvinorevei kune mamwe maitiro ehupenyu hwako.
Zvingango kanganisa barika
Dambudziko rebarika nderekuti rinowanzokanganisa vakadzi. Mubarika, pane inenge nguva dzose kune simba pakati pevarume. Kunyanya kubva pabarika, apo murume mumwe ane vakadzi vakawanda, ipfungwa inowanzoitika.
Pabarika, vakadzi vanowanzokwikwidzana kuti vaonekwe nevarume.
Ongororo yakaitwa muna 2013 pamusoro pezvinokonzereswa nebarika pautano hwevakadzi yakaratidza kuti vakadzi vari pabarika ndivo vanowanzova nematambudziko epfungwa pane vakadzi vari pabarika. Zvakashumwa kuti kuzvidya mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo kwakakwirira zvikuru, uye kugutsikana nehupenyu uye hupenyu hwewanano hwakaderera.
Panewo tsvakiridzo inoratidza kuti vana vanozvarwa nebarika vanogona kukanganiswa. Zvinotendwa kuti michato yebarika inogadzira zvinhu zvinonetsa kuvana uye inogona kukanganisa kukura kwavo.
Vamwe vatsvakurudzi vanotiwo barika rinopa mienzaniso yakawanda, inogona kuva nemigumisiro yakanaka mukukura kwevana. Barika rinonzi rinopa pfungwa inodziya yerudo kuvana kupfuura kuva nomudzimai mumwe.
