Wakambonzwa here kuti mumwe munhu ari kukushandisa kuti zvimubatsire? Kana kuti pamwe vane hanya zvakanyanya nezvaunogona kupa kupfuura iwe? Muchiitiko ichi, inogona kushandiswa.
Kunzwa "kutorwa mukana" nemumwe munhu kunowanzoreva kuti munhu anotenda kuti kodzero dzake dzakatyorwa kana kuti dzakatorwa mukana neimwe nzira.
"Uyezve, munhu ari kushungurudzwa anogona kusaziva maitiro kusvika nguva refu mushure mekunge maitiro atanga"Dzimwe nguva munhu anozviona ipapo," anodaro Markham.
Hukama hwekare, dzimwe nguva huchidzokera kubva paudiki, hunogona kupesvedzera kusimba kwehukama mukukura. Semuenzaniso, vanhu vakakurira mumhuri dzakanaka vanogona kunge vaine tsigiro uye saka vashoma kuti vatorerwe mukana.
Ichi chinyorwa chichakubatsira iwe kuona zviratidzo zvauri kutorwa mukana uye nekupa mazano ekuzvimisa.
Zviratidzo zvauri kushandiswa
Mamiriro emunhu wese akasiyana, asi maererano naMarkham, hezvino zvimwe zviratidzo zvekuti mumwe munhu angangotora mukana newe:
- Mumwe munhu arikukumbira mari kana favours kubva kwauri. Semuenzaniso, kana iwe uchida kukweretesa mari kana kubhadhara bhiri.
- Vanomanikidza zvinhu pane vamwe vasingatarise zvakavanakira kana zvavanofarira. Semuenzaniso, unogona kuerekana waguma wogara nemumwe munhu, kana kungoerekana wakumbira kukwereta mota.
- Munhu iyeye anenge anovimba newe kuti uite zvavanoda. Semuenzaniso, kana mukaenda kunodya pamwe chete, vangangotarisira kuti iwe ubhadhare bhiri pasina kupa kubhadhara.
- Mushure mokunge zvaanoda zvaitwa, munhu wacho anoita seasina hanya newe. Somuenzaniso, vangakushandisa kuti uite zvavanoda, asi vangasada kupedza nguva newe neimwe nzira.
- Munhu iyeye anongove ane rudo uye nepedyo newe kana zvakavaitira. Semuenzaniso, vanogona kukuda kusvika vawana zvavanoda.
- Munhu iyeye haaedzi kuvapo paunoda. Semuenzaniso, kunyangwe uchigara uchihaya mota, vangasakupa chokufambisa kuenda kuairport.
Impact yekushandiswa
Kushandiswa hakungokonzereri kunetseka kwepfungwa pauri chete, asi kunogona kukonzera matambudziko muhukama hwako nevamwe.
Kukanganisa hutano hwepfungwa
Kutorwa mukana kunogona kukonzera matambudziko makuru epfungwa, kunyanya kana wakatorwa mukana kana kukuvadzwa muukama hwapfuura. Zviratidzo zvine chokuita nekuzvidya mwoyo, kuora mwoyo, uye kushungurudzika zvinogona kuonekwa. Nokufamba kwenguva, unogona kuona zvakaoma kuvimba nevamwe uye kuumba hukama hutsva.
Impact pahukama
Kutorwa mukana zvirokwazvo hachisi chiratidzo chehukama hwakanaka. Zvinoreva kuti mumwe atora zvakawanda uye mumwe ari kupa zvibayiro zvose.
Zvinokanganisa kuenzana kwesimba muhukama hwevanhu. Muukama hune hutano, vese vari vaviri vane basa rekutsigira, kuvimba, nekupa kuchengetedzeka mupfungwa kumudiwa wavo.
Nzira dzekudzivisa kutorwa
Hezvino zvimwe zvinhu zvaungaita kuti usabatwa.
- Kuisa Miganhu Kuziva kutyorwa kwemiganhu muhukama hwevanhu uye kudzidza kuseta miganhu ine hutano kunotanga kuchengetedza hutano hwako hwepfungwa uye kuona kuti hautorerwe mukana.
- Edza kuvandudza kuzviremekedza kwako. Nokushanda mukuwedzera kuzviremekedza kwako uye nekuziva kukosha kwako, unogonawo kuzviita kuti usanyanya kutorwa mukana muhukama.
- Kumbira nhungamiro. Kutsvaga nhungamiro kubva kune nyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa, chipangamazano, kana mumwe munhu waunoremekedza kunogonawo kubatsira mukuedza kwako kugadzira miganhu ine hutano.
mukupedzisa
Kutorwa mukana hakunzwi zvakanaka uye kunogona kukonzera matambudziko ehukama pamwe nematambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa. Kuziva zviratidzo zvekuti mumwe munhu ari kutora mukana newe, kuisa miganhu navo, uye kutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune waunoda kana nyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa kunogona kukubatsira kugadzirisa kunzwa kutorwa mukana uye, zvakare, Zvinobatsira kubatsira kudzivirira izvozvo.
