Zvinganetsa kana murume wako kana mukadzi wako akakunyenga iwe uchidanana. Wese munhu aida mukomana/musikana aisazobiridzira, asi rudzi rwakanaka kudaro ruriko here? Pakutanga, iwe unogona kufunga kuti murume wako haazombokunyengedzi, asi nekuda kwekuchinja kwemoyo, hazvisi zvisizvo kuti apedzisire akunyengera iwe nekuda kwezvikonzero zvausingagoni kufungidzira.
Asi usakanda mapfumo pasi. Handigoni kutaura kuti haufe wakabiridzira, asi kune vanhu munyika ino vasingadi kubiridzira. Ichi chinyorwa chichatsanangura maitiro evanhu vasingabidzi uye kuti vangavasiyanisa sei.
Hunhu hwemurume asingabire
Murume asina bonde rakawanda
Sei murume akatanga kubiridzira? Kazhinji imhaka yekuda kuita zvepabonde. Kana murume ane chishuwo chakasimba chepabonde asingagutsikane nebonde chete, kana kana akava asina zvepabonde nekuda kwekusawirirana kana hukama hurefu, pane mukana mukuru wekuti achabiridzira.
Nemamwe mashoko, kana murume akagutsikana pabonde nemusikana wake, haanyanyi kutandara nevamwe vakadzi uye nemaune kutsvaga vamwe vakadzi pabonde. Zvakaoma kutonga chishuwo chemurume chebonde chete nechitarisiko chake, asi varume vane hunhu uye vane hunhu hwakaoma kazhinji havaratidzike sevane chishuwo chakasimba chepabonde.
Zvisinei, kana murume asina chido chepabonde chakasimba, angave asina kunyanya kushanda muhukama hwepabonde pakati pevarume nevakadzi, saka pavanenge vachifambidzana nemhando yakadaro, vakadzi vanofanira kukudziridza ukama hwepabonde pasina kumhanyira.
Murume anofunga kuti kunyenga zvinonetsa
Nzira dzakajairwa dzekubiridzira ndezvekubata mudiwa wekubiridzira nerunhare, LINE, email, nezvimwe, kana kusangana nevanhu vakasiyana siyana vechikadzi paSNS. Ukasangana netsvarakadenga unenge uchida kutaura naye, modanana, mopedzisira maita bonde, saka munopedzisira mave kuhura. Zvingave nani kutaura kuti murume akadaro anoda vakadzi pane kuva munyengeri.
Mushure mezvose, zvinotora nguva yakawanda kudzamisa hukama hwako nemumwe munhu kusvika pakudanana. Varume vakadai vane simba rakawanda, saka kana vakawana pfungwa yekudanana, vanozviita ipapo. Kana murume asingakwanisi kudzora mafungiro ake akava mukomana wako, kwete kungobiridzira chete, asiwo mhirizhonga uye kurwa zvinogona kuitika.
Ukuwo nyangwe aine chishuwo chekudanana nemumwe mukadzi haadi kuzviita nekuti anoona sekuti kumubata kunomunetsa. Nyangwe murume akadai akada kuita zvechikomba hapana nzira yaaizozviita.
Ndine chokwadi chekuti vamwe vakadzi vanofunga nehasha, ``Ini handingati ndiri rudzi rusingabiridzire nekuda kwekuti ndine katsika kekubiridzira kana kwekanguva,'' asi kana kubiridzira kukasaitwa, chishuwo hachingaitike, uye hachigoni kunzi kubiridzira. I'm sure kune vamwe varume vasina shungu dzekunyenga, asi idzo mhando hadzina kunyanya kuita zvikomba.
murume akaisa pfungwa pazvinangwa zvake
Murume anoshanda nesimba pabasa kana murume anoshanda nesimba pane zvaanoda kuita, nokumwe kutaura, type ine zvinangwa zvayo uye anonyura mazviri, anenge akabatikana uye akanangana nezviroto zvake, saka haazove ne pfungwa dzekubiridzira.
Varume vakadai vanowanzotendeseka, vakadzikama uye vanongwarira, uye vanowanzofarira basa kana tsvakiridzo pane nezvehukama.
Ndiye munhu anovimbika uye asingabidzi, asi anewo chikanganiso chaasinganyanyi kusimbisa parudo, uye dzimwe nguva anenge akanyanyisa uye asingaratidzi rudo rukuru. Unogona kunge usingaenderane nevakadzi vanoshuvira zviitiko zvinokatyamadza kana hukama hwerudo.
Hunhu hwemukadzi asingachete
Mukadzi anogutsikana nezviripo
Nekuti haugutsikane nehupenyu hwako hwazvino hwezuva nezuva, hukama hwerudo, kana hukama hwepabonde, iwe unoda kugashira kurudziro nyowani nekudanana nemumwe mudiwa. Vamwe vakadzi vanogona kushandisa bonde kuti vabvise kushushikana kubva muhupenyu hwavo hwazvino. Zvisinei, kana mukadzi achigutsikana neupenyu hwake hwazvino uye achifara uye asingasurukirwi zvachose, kunyange kana akaedzwa kuti apfimbe, achasarudza kuti ane chimwe chinhu chaanorasikirwa nacho kana akabiridzira, uye acharamba achichengeta. mufaro wake wazvino uno Kuti azvidzivirire, anosarudza kutiza nyaya yacho.
mukadzi asina kushamwaridzana
Kusiyana nevakadzi vanovimba nevarume uye vane pfungwa yekutsamira, vakadzi vegava vega vanogona kugara vari voga zviri nyore. Haana hanya nezvehukama nevamwe vanhu, saka kunyangwe kana kudanana kwake nemukomana wake kuchitonhora, haasi rudzi rwekungonzwa kusurukirwa uye kuenda kune vamwe varume vanoyevedza. Uyezve, vakadzi vegava vega vangasanyanya kukosha pakukurukurirana, havakwanisi kuderedza kushungurudzika kuburikidza nekubiridzira, uye vangave vachifarira mukana wekubiridzira kunyange kana pane mukana.
Zvisinei, sezvo asingawanzodyidzana nevamwe vanhu, zvakaoma kuvaka ukama hwerudo naye. Handisi munhu anoshamwaridzana, saka hushamwari hwangu hwakamanikana uye hwakadzama. Zvakare, haasi rudzi rwekufambidzana nemunhu waasingafarire, saka zvinomuomera kuti atange hukama nemusikana wake kubva muhukama hwevanhu. Murume waunoda kuti ave chikomba chemusikana wako anofanira kuwana mabenefits kunze kwekushamwaridzana.
Mukadzi ane zvivindi zvekuramba miyedzo
Muukama hwokubiridzira hunobatanidza vakadzi, vakadzi vanganyengerwa nomurume anokwezva kana kuti kumanikidzirwa nomurume ane chisimba, kuchiguma nokunyengedzwa mukubiridzira. Panguva iyoyo, kana mukadzi ane ushingi hwekuramba hukama hwekubiridzira uye kuramba kuomerera kune zvaanoda kunyange kana mumwe munhu akamukoka, achakwanisa kugadzirisa mamiriro acho oga. Kunyange kana mukadzi akamanikidzwa, haawanzobiridzira kana asingatsamiri pamurume uye achikwanisa kutonga mamiriro ake pachake uye kuzvimiririra.
Kunyange rudzi rusina kubiridzira rune zvikanganiso.
Mazuvano, vadikani vakawanda vari kutambura nedambudziko rekubiridzira, saka vanoshuvira munhu ane pfungwa imwe chete asingabire, uye kuti ive mhando yakakodzera yemukomana kana musikana. Zvisinei, kwaizova kusaziva zvikuru kusarudza mukomana kana kuti musikana nemhaka bedzi yokuda kwavo kubiridzira. Sezvo uyu ari mumwe wako akakosha, iwe unofanirwawo kutarisa pachitarisiko chake, hunhu, uye kuenderana newe, mukuwedzera kune yake tsika yekubiridzira.
