Momwe mungapirire kunyenga / kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu, ndi zomwe mungachite ngati simungathe kupirira

``Ndinazindikira kuti mwamuna wanga amabera, ndiyenera kupirira mpaka liti?' Anthu ena amakhalabe ndi vuto chifukwa sadziwa choti achite akakumana ndi chinyengo kapena zibwenzi zomwe zikukambidwa pagulu. Kuonjezera apo, ngakhale kuti akufuna kuletsa wokondedwa wawo kuti asachite zachinyengo, anthu ambiri amasankha "kupirira" kuti akhale ndi moyo wokhazikika komanso womasuka.

Ndizowona kuti zimatengera nthawi yambiri komanso khama kuti muthetse bwino chinyengo / kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu. Kuonjezera apo, padziko lonse lapansi amati ``chinyengo ndi mwachibadwa'' ndipo ``chinyengo sichingachiritsidwe,' choncho ngakhale atadziwika kuti wokonda kunyengedwa, woperekedwayo angapitirizebe kunyenga poganiza kuti `` ndapambana. ‘ndikhululukireni ngakhale nditanena.’ Mungazengereze kufufuza ndi kudziletsa. Komabe, zingakhale zovuta kuti munthu amene wanyengedwa apirire. Chifukwa chake, nkhaniyi ifotokoza malangizo amomwe mungapiririre kunyenga / kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu.

Zoyenera kuchita mukafuna kupirira kunyenga / kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu

Choyamba, yesani kudzipatula kwa wokondedwa wanu.

Ngakhale mutayesa kupirira, simungathe kupirira ngati muwona zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti wokondedwa wanu ali pachibwenzi ndi mnzanu wachinyengo. Mukawona wokondedwa wanu akulankhulana ndi wina kudzera pa LINE kapena imelo, simungachitire mwina koma kuganiza, ``Kodi mulumikizananso ndi mnzanu wachinyengo?'' ndipo zimakhala zowawa m'maganizo. Ngati wokondedwa wanu sakhala pambali panu, mumada nkhawa kuti mwina muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzanu, ndipo simungathe kugona ngakhale mutafuna. Mukazindikira kuti mwakunyengedwa, kungoganizira za wokondedwa wanu kungakupatseni nkhawa.

Panthawiyo, ngati kuli kotheka, ndi bwino kuyang'ana pazifukwa zina ndikudzipatsa nthawi yoziziritsa kuti mukhazikitse malingaliro anu. Mungathe kuchepetsa zotsatira zoipa za kubera posiya wokondedwa wanu kukhala wosakhulupirika, kuchepetsa nthawi yomwe nonse awiri mumacheza, ndikusintha maganizo anu kuti ubale wanu wapano ukhale wautali.

2. Dzisokonezeni nokha ndi zokonda, ntchito, maulendo, ndi zina zotero.

Njira ina yopewera kubera ndi kuganizira zinthu zina zosangalatsa popanda kuganizira za ubale wanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli wotanganidwa tsiku lililonse ndi kutanganidwa ndi ntchito yanu, mudzatha kuthetsa ululu wanu ndi kusungulumwa kwanu, ndipo mudzawoneka ngati munthu wakhama amene amakonda kugwira ntchito ndipo adzalemekezedwa ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi nanu.

Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe mumakonda ngati mwayi wofunafuna zosangalatsa zina osati chikondi, kapena kuyamba kuphunzira zomwe zingakhale zothandiza pazokonda zanu kapena ntchito. Ngati muli ndi chizolowezi chimene mumachikonda, sizodabwitsa kuti muzingoyang'ana pa izo osati za wokondedwa wanu.

Ngati ntchito ndi zosangalatsa sizokwanira, mungagwiritse ntchito kuyenda monga njira yosinthira maganizo anu ndikusangalala ndi kugula, masewera, ndi zina zotero mukakhala panjira yolemeretsa moyo wanu.

3. Pezani munthu woti mukambirane naye za chinyengo kuchokera kwa anthu omwe ali pafupi nanu.

Anthu ena amaganiza kuti, ‘‘Popeza kuti winawake wandinyenga, bwanji osandinyenganso?’’ Komabe, ngati mutayamba kunyenga pamene mukulolera chinyengo cha wokondedwa wanuyo, ubwenziwo udzangowonjezereka. Kudziletsa ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pankhani yopirira kunyenga / kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu. Osataya mtima ndikuchita zinthu zosatheka chifukwa chakusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wako.

Ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti akuberani, bwanji osalankhula ndi munthu wina? Kukhala ndi munthu wapafupi amene mungakambirane naye za kubera kungakuthandizeni kudziwa momwe zinthu zilili panopa, komanso kukupatsani malangizo a zimene mungachite ngati wina akuberani. Akhozanso kuyankha mafunso monga akuti ``Ndiyenera kusiya bwanji?'' ndi ``Ndiyenera kusiya mpaka pati?'' Komabe, kuti mupewe kuulula kuti wokondedwa wanu akubera ena, muyenera kusankha munthu amene mukufuna kukambirana naye za chinyengo mosamala.

Kodi sikokwanira kungoleza mtima? Sibwino kupirira kunyenga/kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wako mochuluka.
Anthu ambiri amasankha “kupirira,” koma n’kofunika kuzindikira kuti kungosankha “kupirira” sikungathetse vutolo. Chifukwa chake ndi chakuti ngakhale mutapirira, mfundo yakuti wokondedwa wanu anakunyengererani sichidzasintha. Choncho, musalole chinyengo kwambiri kuti mukhalebe ndi vuto. Ngakhale mutafuna kunamizira kuti chibwenzi chanu sichinachitikepo ndikupitirizabe kukhala monga mwachizolowezi, mudzayamba kumva kutopa m'maganizo ndipo simudzatha kusangalala tsiku lililonse monga momwe munkachitira. Ndipo palibe chimene chingalipire ululu umenewo. Ngati mungopirira, inu kapena wokondedwa wanu simudzatha kuchoka muzochita zachinyengo.

Osati zokhazo, koma ngati mutapirira kwa kanthawi ndikuyang'ana momwe akubera ndikuyang'ana khalidwe la wokondedwa wanu, zidzakhala zothandiza pakufufuza zachinyengo zamtsogolo ndikusonkhanitsa umboni wachinyengo, koma ngati mutapirira khalidwe lachinyengo. mpaka chitadutsa malire, lidzakhala vuto lalikulu.Ndilo lotopetsa ndipo lingayambitse mavuto ambiri. Ngakhale kuti anthu kaŵirikaŵiri amanena kuti “kuleza mtima ndi khalidwe labwino,” sitiyenera kunyalanyaza kuipa kwa “kuleza mtima”.

Tsoka likhoza kuchitika ngati mumalekerera chinyengo / kusakhulupirika kwambiri.

1. Tsiku lililonse ndi lopweteka ndipo ndikuwopa kuti ndiphulika.

Ngati mungapirire kunyenga, pali mwayi waukulu kuti munthu amene akupusitsidwa adzakhala ndi vuto tsiku lililonse. Ngati simuthetsa mavuto anu, nkhawa yanu imakula, ndipo simungathe kuthetsa nkhawa zanu pokhapokha ngati mnzanuyo atasiya kukunyengererani. Komabe, ngati mupitirizabe kudzikakamiza mpaka malire, mukhoza kudwala thupi ndipo mkwiyo wanu ukhoza kuphulika, zomwe zimatsogolera ku zochitika zachiwawa. Ngakhale mutayesetsa kusunga zinthu mmene zilili ndi kupirira, tsiku lina mukhoza kulephera kudziletsa n’kuyamba kubwezera aŵirinu amene anakunyengani.

2. Siyani wokondedwa wanu ndi kubera mnzanu yekha

Woberedwayo angapirire ndi chibwenzicho kwakanthawi, akumaganiza kuti, ``Ndi masewera chabe, ndiye ndikudabwa ngati mnzangayo pamapeto pake adzandisiya ndi kubweranso kudzakhala pafupi nane. Komabe, kudziletsa kumatha kulimbikitsa kubera, chifukwa kumapangitsa wokondedwa wanu kuganiza kuti sangatsutsidwe mosalekeza chifukwa chakubera. Chifukwa chakuti salangidwa moyenerera chifukwa cha chinyengo, ngakhale wokonda atatopa ndi zomwe zikuchitika panopa, akhoza kuyamba kufunafuna mnzake wosewera naye watsopano ndipo pamapeto pake adzanyenga. Pamenepo chipiriro chanu chidzakhala chopanda pake.

3. Kufalitsa zotsatira zoipa za chinyengo ndi chigololo

``N'zochititsa manyazi kunyengeredwa, ndipo anthu ochepa amadziwa za izo, chabwino, chabwino?' Ndikutha kumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe simukufuna kudziwa za chibwenzi chanu chifukwa simukufuna kuti anthu omwe akuzungulirani adziwe, koma sindingakutsimikizireni kuti simudziwa ngati simukambirana. ndi mnzako.

N’kutheka kuti makolo a mnzanu kapena ogwira nawo ntchito atulukira kale za chibwenzicho. Komabe, ngakhale wina atadziwa za chinyengo cha wokondedwa wanu, si inu amene mukupusitsidwa, kotero alibe "ulamuliro" wosonyeza khalidwe lachinyengo la wokondedwa wanu ndikusiya. Zikatero, ngati simungathe kudziletsa ndikuyang'anizana ndi kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa wanu, zidzangowononga moyo wanu wamtsogolo.

Ngati simungathe kudziletsa, simusowa kudziletsa.

Kusonkhanitsa umboni wachinyengo

Yambani kusonkhanitsa umboni wakubera ngakhale mukupirira. Anthu aŵiri amene anachitirana chinyengo sangavomereze mosavuta kuti anachitirana chinyengo. Mwachitsanzo, mnzanu wobera angabwerenso kwa inu ndi zotsutsana zosiyanasiyana. Pofuna kuthetsa nkhani yachinyengo bwino, m'pofunika kukonzekera umboni wachinyengo pasadakhale zomwe zingatsimikizire kuti anthu awiriwa ali ndi chibwenzi. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito njira zofufuzira zachinyengo monga kuyang'ana LINE wa wokondedwa wanu kapena kutsatira chinyengo cha wokondedwa wanu pogwiritsa ntchito GPS, mukhoza kusonkhanitsa zambiri zachinyengo ndikupeza mwayi pazokambirana zachinyengo.

kulankhula za chinyengo

Mukakhala ndi umboni wachinyengo ndipo mwakonzeka, yambani kukangana popanda kudziletsa. Gwiritsani ntchito mwayiwu kuti mukambirane, muziimba mlandu wokondedwa wanu, mumupangitse kuti azidzimva kuti ali ndi mlandu, ndipo mupangitse kuti anong'oneze bondo chifukwa cha chibwenzi chake. Auzeni za kupezeka kwa chibwenzicho, zowawa ndi kuuma kwa nthawiyo, ndipo auzeni kuti mukufuna kusiya chibwenzicho ndipo musadzakumanenso ndi mnzanu wachinyengo.

Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe zinthu zonse zomwe mwakhala mukuzisunga zimatuluka m'mutu mwanu, kotero mutha kutaya mtima pakukambirana ndikulephera kuyenda bwino. Kuti mugwiritse ntchito bwino mwayiwu, lankhulani ndi wokondedwa wanu modekha momwe mungathere.

N’zotheka kupempha chipukuta misozi

Ngati winayo ali ndi chibwenzi, mutha kuyika zilango kwa mnzanu woberayo polemba chiwongolero cha chipukuta misozi. Izi zikhoza kunenedwa kuti ndi malipiro a ululu wa kunyengedwa, koma kuti adzitengere ndalama zothandizira kusakhulupirika, m'pofunika kutsimikizira zochita za kusakhulupirika ndikusonkhanitsa umboni wokwanira wa kusakhulupirika, ndipo m'pofunika kupanga chiweruzo pa kuchuluka kwa alimony. komanso zimadalira zosiyanasiyana. Chonde samalani.

Ngati sizikuyenda bwino, kusudzulana kapena kupatukana ndi zosankha.

M'malo mopirira zowawa za kunyengedwa ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi kupirira kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa wanu, ndi bwino kupewa zowawa zamtsogolo posankha kuthetsa kapena kusudzulana tsopano. Anthu ena amaganiza kuti mukangobweretsa kusudzulana / kusudzulana, zonse zatha, koma mwayiwu ungakuthandizeni kuthana ndi ululu wobera. Pambuyo pothetsa ubale wanu wakale, yesetsani kukhala ndi wokonda yemwe sangakunyengerereni, kupanga mapulani atsopano, ndikuyamba moyo watsopano.