Kodi okondana ndi okondana amakumana kuti? ? Chitsanzo chokumana nacho

Zikuoneka kuti pali anthu ambiri apabanja omwe ali ndi zibwenzi, koma kodi anthu awiriwa amakumana bwanji ndikuyamba chibwenzi? Ili ndi funso lomwe anthu ambiri amafunsa akakumana ndi chibwenzi ndipo akukumana ndi kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa wawo. Makamaka ngati munthu amene mukuchita naye chibwenzi ndi munthu amene simukumudziwa kapena alibe chiyanjano ndi wokondedwa wanu kupatula chibwenzicho, muyenera kusamala ndi momwe wokondedwa wanu amasakasaka munthu woti akhale naye pachibwenzi.

Izi zili choncho chifukwa anthu okwatirana amene amafuna zibwenzi samangoyamba kukondana ndi mnzawoyo pazifukwa monga chikondi pongoonana koyamba, koma amakhala ndi maubwenzi ambiri achigololo kudzera m’njira zosiyanasiyana pofuna kukwaniritsa chigololo chawo. anakhala ndi chibwenzi mobwerezabwereza. Mosiyana ndi anthu omwe adagonanapo kamodzi koma osachitanso, ndikofunikira kuti mutenge nthawi yayitali kuti muchiritse ``matenda' a omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chogonana, ndipo ngati simukufuna. tsiku loterolo munthu, yambani molawirira Ndi bwino kufufuza chikhumbo wokondedwa wanu kuti kubera. Kuyambira pano, ndikuwonetsa malo osonkhanira omwe anthu omwe akufuna kuchita zibwenzi amakonda kukhala nawo, ndiye chonde onani izi ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito pofufuza zachinyengo.

Chitsanzo cha momwe okondana amakumana

kukumana kuntchito

Pankhani ya chinyengo ndi zibwenzi, zambiri zimakhala kukumana kuntchito. Anthu okondana amafunika nthawi yoti azikondana kuti ayambe chibwenzi ndi munthu amene ali naye pachibwenzi, choncho anthu ambiri amasankha kuchita zibwenzi mkati mwa kampaniyo ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito ntchito ngati mwayi wopeza chibwenzi. Akasankha munthu wokwatirana naye pakati pa anzawo akuntchito, amagwiritsira ntchito mipata yonga ntchito yowonjezereka, mapwando akumwa zakumwa, maulendo apakampani, ndi maulendo abizinezi kuti adziŵane ndi mnzanuyo asanayambe chibwenzi. Popeza munthu amene mukuchita naye chibwenzi ndi membala wa kampani yomweyi, anthu ozungulira inu sangaganize zachilendo ngati mupita kukacheza ku cafe limodzi.

Zokumana nazo pa SNS

Ndikosavuta kukhala mabwenzi apamtima ndi anthu pa intaneti kudzera mu zida zoyankhulirana monga Facebook, Instagram, ndi Skype. Anthu ena amagwiritsa ntchito njira yomweyi kuti apeze bwenzi. Choyamba, zindikirani chandamale chanu ngati munthu wowoneka bwino mdera lanu kapena mayi wapanyumba yemwe ali ndi nthawi yambiri yaulere, kenako pangani anzanu potumiza zopempha za anzanu kwa anthu ochepa. Ndipo potumiza, kupereka ndemanga, ndi “kukonda” pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti tsiku lililonse, mumakulitsa malingaliro anu ndi munthu winayo. Pomaliza, amayamba chibwenzi m'moyo weniweni ndikukhala banja lachigololo. Timalumikizana pa intaneti, ndipo nthawi zonse tikakumana m'moyo weniweni, timapita pa chibwenzi, kupita kunja kwa banja, kapena kugonana. Chifukwa munthu winayo si nthawi zonse amene amakhala naye pachibwenzi m'moyo weniweni, anthu ena amayamba kukondana ndi zibwenzi zingapo kudzera mu SNS.

Kukumana pamasamba/mapulogalamu ochezera

Uku kungakhale kukumana kwachigololo. Si zachilendo kupeza munthu amene mumamukonda pogwiritsa ntchito bolodi lachibwenzi ndikusangalala ndi chibwenzi komanso kugonana. Kupyolera mu Intaneti, ngakhale mkazi wapakhomo amene amakhala panyumba nthaŵi zambiri kupatulapo kukagula zinthu angapeze bwenzi lokondana naye limene angasankhe. Nthawi zambiri, anthu omwe amakumana ndi munthu kudzera mu njirayi amakhala ndi nthawi imodzi, koma ngati akuganiza kuti ndi ofanana kwambiri, pali chiopsezo kuti adzakhala okwatirana osakhulupirika ndikukhala ndi chibwenzi chokhalitsa.

N’zoona kuti anthu ena amafuna kugonana ndi kukondana, koma safuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu amene ali pabanja kapena kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Zikatero, kuti musankhidwe ndi munthu amene mwamusankha ndikukumana ndi anthu ambiri momwe mungathere, anthu okwatirana angayerekeze kukhala osakwatiwa ndikuyandikira kwa inu kuti akukondeni.

masewera a pa intaneti

Ngati mukusewera masewera a pa intaneti ndi wokondedwa wanu, mungamve bwanji ngati wokondedwa wanu atayamba kukondana kapena kukwatirana ndi wosewera wina pamene akusewera? Anthu ena amakumana ndi chinthu chotchedwa ``pseudo love'' kudzera m'machitidwe achikondi/ukwati komanso macheza aulere/zomata zopezeka mu ma MMORPG ndi masewera ochezera. Maubwenzi ambiri oyerekeza amakhala ongosangalatsa, koma sitinganene kuti pali zochitika pamene anthu aŵiri amene akusangalala amakhala aakulu ndi kuyamba kukhala ndi chibwenzi.

Zomwe muyenera kusamala nazo si masewera a pa intaneti omwe amaseweredwa pakompyuta yanu, koma popeza mafoni am'manja akuchulukirachulukira, masewera ochezera a pakompyuta amathanso kukhala njira yopezera bwenzi. Ngati mukufuna kuchita kafukufuku wachinyengo pa foni ya wokondedwa wanu, musanyalanyaze mndandanda wa anzanu pamasewera a smartphone.

PTA/Alumni Association

Pali njira zambiri zothanirana ndi kusakhulupirika. Nthawi zina wokondedwa wanu akhoza kukumana ndi chibwenzi m'njira yomwe simungaganizire. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amadzinamizira kuti ali ndi chidwi ndi maphunziro a mwana wake ndipo amapita ku PTA, koma amasandutsa PTA kukhala malo ochitira misonkhano ya chibwenzi. Palinso chiwopsezo choti adzagwiritsa ntchito kukumananso ngati chowiringula chokumana ndi anzawo akusukulu ndikuchita chibwenzi ndi bwenzi lawo lakale. Nthawi iliyonse wokondedwa wanu amatenga nawo mbali paphwando lakumwa la PTA / alumni kapena ntchito, mudzakhala m'mavuto ngati ayesa kukunyengererani polankhula za zolinga zanu.

Zomwe ma PTAs ndi ma alumni associations ali ofanana ndikuti anthu onse omwe mumakumana nawo ndi odziwana nawo, komanso ali ndi mwayi woti ambiri mwa iwo ali okwatirana, kotero simuyenera kuda nkhawa kuti mnzanuyo ndi ndani, kotero ndi zabwino kwambiri. mwayi kwa anthu amene akufuna kuchita chibwenzi. Ndipo musanachite chibwenzi, mutha kuweruza umunthu ndi zokonda za munthu yemwe mumamukonda kudzera muzochita zosiyanasiyana zomwe PTA ndi alumni association. Komanso, kuti muchepetse tcheru, "○○ abambo/amayi ake" ndi "mnzako wakusekondale" zilinso zifukwa zabwino. Choncho, ngati simukufuna kuti wokondedwa wanu akhale wosakhulupirika, muyenera kukhala tcheru ndi kuteteza wokondedwa wanu kuti asakunyengerereni m'njira zosiyanasiyana.

Kufufuza kwachinyengo pa momwe mungakumane ndi munthu amene ali ndi chibwenzi

Mukadziwa momwe mungakumane ndi kusakhulupirika, pofufuza kusakhulupirika, mukhoza kuyang'ana "njira zosakhulupirika" za wokondedwa wanu. Mutha kuyang'ana LINE wa wokondedwa wanu, kutsekereza mapulogalamu ochezera pa foni yanu yam'manja, ndikuyang'ana mbiri yakusakatula kwa msakatuli wanu kuti mudziwe momwe wokondedwa wanu akukhalira ndi chibwenzi, kenako chitanipo kanthu. Zoonadi, kuti athetse vuto la kusakhulupirika, sikoyenera kuchepetsa njira zomwe amakumana nazo, komanso kuthetsa chilakolako cha wokonda kusakhulupirika. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kumvetsetsa psychology ya kusakhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu ndikuwongolera ubale wanu wachikondi.