Mlongo wamkulu ku bar ali ndi chibwenzi! ? Kunyenga ndi kusakhulupirika pa mowa

Anthu amati kubera kumachitika munthu atamwa mowa. Zithunzi zomwe wosewera wamkulu adaledzera ndikumaliza kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzake ndizofala m'masewero achigololo. Mowa ndi chinyengo/kusakhulupirika ndi mabwenzi enieni.

Malo omwe amatumizira mowa komanso komwe chinyengo chingachitike ndi ``malo omwera'' (zokhwasula-khwasula). Chifukwa chake n’chakuti kudzera m’zakumwa ndi zokhwasula-khwasula m’bala, mungathe kulankhula mosavuta ndi munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzanu amene mumamukonda ndi kukulitsa chikondi chanu. Sichingakhale chachilendo ngakhale pang’ono ngati mtunda wa pakati panu wafupika mwadzidzidzi ndi mowa. Komanso, ngati mwaledzera, simungathe kukana mosavuta munthu wina atakuitanani kuti muzichita chibwenzi. Zikatero, ngakhale poyamba mukufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi, pali kuthekera kuti mutha kukhala ku hotelo yachikondi ndi mnzanu.

Mipiringidzo ya zokhwasula-khwasula zowala kwambiri ndi ma izakaya osayatsa bwino amatchukanso ngati malo ochezera anthu osakwatirana. Kwa maanja omwe ali ndi nkhawa kuti awonedwe, izakaya yokhala ndi bala ndi zipinda zapadera ndi malo osangalatsa komanso omasuka kuti mukambirane, ndipo popeza ndi malo odyera omwe amamwa mowa kwambiri, mutha kusangalala ndi chakudya chomwe chimakhazikika pa mowa kumtima wanu. zomwe zili. Ndi malo abwino kwambiri ochitira zibwenzi.

Dziko lausiku ndi lodabwitsa, ndipo ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri kwa maanja osakhulupirika omwe akufuna kubisa zinsinsi zawo, komanso kwa anthu omwe akufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Choncho, pamene nsalu yotchinga ikagwa usiku, anthu ambiri amapita ku mipiringidzo ndi izakayas kumwa ndi kusangalala usikuuno. Kuyambira tsopano, ine ndikuyambitsa chinyengo / kusakhulupirika chitsanzo mmodzimmodzi.

Chidule cha chinyengo ndi zibwenzi kunja kwa mabala ndi mabala chifukwa cha mowa

Chimodzi, mumabera mwangozi? Chenjerani ndi malo osungira madzi komwe mungamwe mowa.

Sikuti anthu onse amene amapita kumabala kapena ku izakaya amangofuna chibwenzi, koma anthu akalola kuti mowa uziwalamulira, amayamba kuchita misala, kuchita chinyengo komanso kutengeka ndi nkhani zapakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti simukufuna kuchita zibwenzi poyambirira, mungakopeke ndi kutseguka kwa kauntala, ndipo mumphindi yakutengeka maganizo, mungayambe kuganiza kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wapafupi ndi inu. ndi wokongola, ndipo mwina simungathe kuugwira mtima. Chonde samalani chifukwa pakhoza kukhala anthu omwe amakukakamizani kuti mumwe mowa ndikukuitanani kuti muzichita chibwenzi, samalani.

2. Sankhani bwenzi ku bar? Anthu omwe akufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi amatha kulunjika amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ku Snack.

Kuonjezera apo, mwamuna yemwe ali ndi chidwi chochita chibwenzi angapeze mnzake wosewera naye kuchokera kwa mkazi pa bar kapena snack bar, ndipo amalumikizana naye mobisa. Chifukwa chake n’chakuti kwa anthu amene akufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi, malo ochitirako zokhwasula-khwasula usiku angakhale malo abwino ochitirako chibwenzi. Ndiponso, pakati pa anthu amene amagwira ntchito m’mabala ndi m’malo ochitirako zokhwasula-khwasula, pali mamembala ambiri amene amafikira anthu olemera osati chifukwa cha chikondi, koma ndalama. Ngati nonse muli ogwirizana mwakuthupi, ndiye kuti munthu woteroyo angakhale bwenzi labwino kwambiri pamwambo wanu.

3. Kodi mumakumana kuti mwachinsinsi ndi mnzanu amene amabera? Izakaya ndi malo ochezera mabanja osakhulupirika.

Kodi nchifukwa ninji mipiringidzo ndi izakaya zili malo otchuka ochezera mabanja osakhulupirika omwe amasunga maubwenzi awo mwachinsinsi? Kuwonjezera pa kuunikira ndi mowa, izakaya imakhalanso ndi zakudya zosiyanasiyana, ndipo kukhala omasuka kumapangitsa kuti nonse awiri mukambirane zinthu mosavuta, zomwe zingathandize awiri a inu kugwirizana bwino. Popeza pali mwayi wochepa kwa okwatirana osakhulupirika kuti apite pa chibwenzi, izakaya komwe kumakhala kosavuta kulankhula ndi chisankho chabwino ngati mukufuna kuzamitsa chikondi chanu mokwanira pa tsiku.

Momwe mungathanirane ndi kunyenga kwa wokondedwa wanu kapena chigololo ku bar kapena bar

1. Siyani kumwa mpaka kuledzera kwathunthu

Ngati mumakonda mowa, nthawi zambiri mumamwa mpaka mutaledzera. Komabe, kumwa mpaka mutaledzera kotheratu ndikowononga thanzi lanu, ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri kumawonedwa kukhala kosasangalatsa ndi ena ndi kusakondedwa. Ngati wokondedwa wanu akupitiriza chizolowezi ichi choipa, pali kuthekera kwakukulu kuti osati iye mwangozi kunyenga pa inu ataledzera, koma padzakhala zotsatira zina zoipa komanso. Monga munthu wapafupi kwambiri ndi inu, chingakhale chanzeru kunyengerera anthu omwe ali pafupi nanu ndikugwira nawo ntchito kuti aletse wokondedwa wanu kumwa mopitirira muyeso.

2. Lekani kupita kumalo osungira madzi.

Ngakhale anthu amphamvu amatha kuchita zinthu zopusa akakumana ndi mowa. Ngati mukufuna kumwa mowa wabwino, simuyenera kupita ku malo odyera, omwe amakonda kubera. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi phwando lakumwa, malo odyera okongola komanso oyera ndi imodzi mwazosankha. Pofuna kupewa chinyengo, ndi bwino kupewa malo omwe n'zosavuta kubera, choncho ngati n'kotheka, pewani kulola wokondedwa wanu kupita kumalo ogulitsa nsomba, ndipo ngati n'kotheka, ndi bwino kuti nonse awiri mupewe kukhudzana ndi chilichonse chokhudzana ndi masitolo ogulitsa nsomba.

3. Onani tsiku lachinyengo ku pub

Okwatirana achigololo atha kusankha malo ogulitsira ena ndikugwiritsa ntchito ngati "maziko" awo pachibwenzi. Choyamba, bwanji osachita kafukufuku wachinyengo ndikuyang'ana LINE wa wokondedwa wanu, kapena sonkhanitsani umboni wosiyanasiyana wachinyengo kuchokera ku iPhone kapena kompyuta yanu? M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, mungakhalenso ndi mwaŵi wopeza malo ndi nthaŵi ya deti la chibwenzi ndi kuchitira umboni nkhaniyo. Tsopano, ngati mutenga umboni wotsimikizika wakubera pojambula zithunzi zachinyengo, zidzakhala zosavuta kusiya kubera.

“Kumwa mopambanitsa” n’kofunika

Palibe vuto kufuna kumwa, koma ukangoyamba kumwa, sungathe kudziletsa ndipo anthu ambiri amayamba kudalira mowa. Pofuna kupewa zochitika zoipitsitsa zakuchita chigawenga chosadziwika chifukwa cha mowa komanso kuvulaza kwambiri munthu wapafupi ndi inu, komanso kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino, muyenera kupewa kumwa mowa kwambiri. Komanso, ngati mnzanu akulimbana ndi kuledzera, njira yothetsera vutoli ndi kuyesetsa kuthetsa zizolowezi zake zoipa.