Zotsutsa kuchokera kwa omwe akubera anzawo ndi njira zotsutsana nazo: Akanena, ndibweza!

Mukazindikira kuti wokondedwa wanu akubera, kuwonjezera pa kuyankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikuyesera kuti asiye kunyenga, mungafunikirenso kuwulula zenizeni za mnzanu wachinyengo ndikukumana nawo mwachindunji. Makamaka, ngati wovulalayo wa chibwenzi akufuna kunena alimony ku chipani china, m'pofunika kuti onse awiri akambirane nkhaniyo ndi kuchuluka kwa alimony. Zikatero, kukambiranako sikungayende bwino ndipo pamakhala chiopsezo cha zokambirana ndi ndewu. Pofuna kupewa kubweza ngongoleyo, wobera mnzakeyo amaumirira kuti si vuto lawo ndikupereka zifukwa.

Zikatero, chingakhale chanzeru kuganizira zimene muyenera kunena musanakumane ndi mnzanu amene amabera kuti mumupatse chilango, kumupangitsa kuvomereza kuti anabera, ndi kuzindikira kulakwa kwake. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mnzanu amene amabera akupereka zifukwa, muyenera kumenyana ndi mawu abwino ndi okopa kuti mupitirizebe kupambana. M'nkhaniyi, tipeza zomwe anthu ambiri amatsutsa omwe amachitira chinyengo akamanena zachinyengo, ndikuyambitsa njira zopewera.

Zotsutsa kuchokera kwa mnzanu wachinyengo ndi momwe mungathanirane nazo

Ena, "Sindinachite chinyengo."

Zowona sizingatsimikizidwe popanda umboni. Mnzanu wosakhulupirika amene amaumirira kuti sakukunyengani angaganize kuti mulibe umboni wofunika. Kapena mwinamwake mukuyika ketulo chifukwa mukufuna kutsimikizira chiwerengero ndi mtundu wa umboni wachinyengo womwe muli nawo. Pofuna kupewa kugwidwa ndi bwenzi lanu lachinyengo, chonde musapereke umboni wotsimikizirika, koma m'malo mwake perekani umboni wina wachinyengo kuti mutsimikizire kuti mnzanu akubera. Mwachitsanzo, zithunzi za anthu awiri ali pachibwenzi akulowa ndi kutuluka mu hotelo yachikondi ndi umboni wamphamvu wotsimikizira kuti ``kusakhulupirika,'' koma palinso chiwopsezo chakuti umboniwo uwonongeke ndi mnzake wachinyengo. Ngati simukutsimikiza ngati munthu winayo angachitepo kanthu, muyenera kulingalira mosamala musanachitepo kanthu.

2. “Mwina anasiyana kalekale.”

Ngati ubale ndi wokondedwa wanu wasokonekera, koma simunasweka wina ndi mnzake, zikuwoneka ngati muli kale pachiwopsezo cha ena, ndiye kuti pali kuthekera kwakukulu kuti mnzake wonyenga atengepo mwayi. mwa mwayi uwu ndikubera okonda osungulumwa. Koma malinga ngati simunasudzulane, ubwenzi wanu umakhala ndi mwai wowongoka. Ngakhale chibwenzicho sichikuyenda bwino, palibe chifukwa chonena kuti nonse munasiyana chifukwa ndi awiri okha, kapena munthu wachitatu akukunyengani.

3. "Sindinkadziwa kuti anali wokwatira kapena anali ndi chibwenzi."

Nanga bwanji kumuuza kuti, ``Ngakhale kukunyengerera mosasamala, kumangoberabe. N’zoona kuti ngati wokonda chinyengo akunamizira kuti ndi wosakwatiwa, ndiye kuti amene anabera nayenso ayenera kukhala amene ananyengedwa. Komabe, ngakhale mutalakwitsa popanda kudziwa, ndikulakwitsa, ndipo muyenera kunyamula udindo womwewo. Musaganize kuti, "Ndalakwitsa, chonde ndikhululukireni."

4. “Wokondedwa wako adakukakamiza kuti ukhale pachibwenzi”.

Wokonda chinyengo ayenera kulangidwa, koma onyenga awiriwo ali ndi udindo wonse. Ngakhale mutakakamizika kubera, musanyalanyaze kupwetekedwa mtima kumene munachititsira mnzanu amene wakuberedwayo. Kwa munthu amene akubera, onse amene akubera ali ndi chilango. Muyenera kuyankhulana momveka bwino mfundoyi kwa gulu lina ndikumvetsetsa.

Komanso, pokhapokha ngati mwaopsezedwa, kuchitiridwa nkhanza, kapena kugwiriridwa, muyenera kukhala ndi mwayi wokana mwakufuna kwanu ngati mukukakamizika kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Ngati simunakanebe, simunganene kuti mulibe udindo uliwonse.

5. “Chikondi chathu ndi chenicheni”

Anthu ena amene amabera anzawo anganene mawu achipongwe chifukwa safuna kuthetsa chibwenzi chawo. Mukanakhala kuti simunali munthu wotero, simukanakhala ndi mphamvu yobera wokondedwa wa wina popanda chilolezo. Ngati munthu samvetsa mmene anthu ena akumvera ndipo amadziganizira yekha, zimakhala zovuta kuti avomereze kuopsa kwa khalidwe lawo lachinyengo. Choyamba, muuzeni modekha zimene mnzanuyo ananena, ndiyeno muthandizeni kumvetsa kuipa kwa chinyengo. Iye akadali mwana amene sangathe kulamulira bwino maganizo ake, choncho zingatenge nthawi yaitali kuti atsimikizire.

6. "Palibe nthawi yotsatira, tinasiyana."

Ngakhale atapatukana, n’zoona kuti anamunyenga. M’pofunika kwambiri kuthetsa mavuto amene alipo panopa kusiyana ndi kudera nkhawa za m’tsogolo. Izi zitha kuonedwanso ngati mkangano wofooka kwambiri. Bwanji osanena kuti, ``Ngakhale simuchita izi kuyambira pano, chonde musaganize kuti chinyengo chanu chidzatha.' Monga mnzanu wonyenga, muyenera kulingalira za khalidwe lanu lachinyengo ndi kupepesa kwa munthu amene anabera. Pankhani ya chibwenzi, malipiro angaperekedwe ngati alimony. Ndikofunika osati kuletsa chinyengo m'tsogolomu, komanso kukhala ndi khalidwe loona mtima kuchokera kwa munthu amene anakunyengererani.

Gwiritsani ntchito mawu oyenerera kuti munthu amene wakunyengeni aganizire ndikupepesa.

Polankhula osati kokha ndi munthu amene anakunyengererani, komanso ndi wokondedwa wanu amene anakunyengererani, mukhoza kukumana ndi zotsutsa monga zomwe zili m'nkhaniyi. Panthawiyo, mungagwiritse ntchito njira yofananayo kuti musonyeze khalidwe lachinyengo la wokondedwa wanu ndikumupepesa. Mukamalankhula ndi munthu amene wakunyengani, chinthu chofunika kwambiri kukumbukira ndi kumupangitsa kuganizira za chibwenzi chake ndi kukonza zolakwika zomwe adalakwitsa. Chifukwa chake, polimbana ndi mdani wanu, ndi bwino kupewa kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo champhamvu momwe mungathere.