It seems that there are many married people who have affairs, but how do these two people meet and start a romantic relationship? This is a question that many people ask when they are the victim of an affair and are faced with their lover's betrayal. Especially if the person you are having an affair with is someone you don't know or have no connection with your lover other than the affair, you need to be careful about how your lover searches for someone to have an affair with.
This is because married people who desire extramarital affairs do not automatically fall in love with their partner due to reasons such as love at first sight, but rather they have relationships with multiple adulterous partners through various means in order to satisfy their infidelity. You may have maintained and repeatedly had an affair. Unlike people who have had an affair once and never do it again, it is necessary to spend a lot of time to cure the ``disease'' of those who have acquired the habit of having an affair, and if you do not want to date such a type of person, start early. It is better to check your lover's desire to cheat. From now on, I will introduce the meeting places that people who want to have an affair often aim for, so please refer to this and use it while investigating cheating.
Pattern of how lovers and affair partners meet
encounter at work
When it comes to cheating and extramarital affairs, most of them are workplace encounters. Lovers need time to love in order to date the person they are having an affair with, so many people choose to have an affair within the company and use work as an opportunity to have an affair. After choosing a partner from among their workmates, they use opportunities such as overtime work, drinking parties, company trips, and business trips to get to know the partner before starting a relationship. Since the person you are having an affair with is a member of the same company, people around you won't think it strange if you go on a date to a cafe together.
Encounters on SNS
It's easy to become best friends with people online through communication tools such as Facebook, Instagram, and Skype. Some people use the same method to find an affair partner. First, identify your target as a good-looking guy in your neighborhood or a housewife with a lot of free time, and then make friends by sending friend requests to a few people. And by posting, commenting, and "liking" on social media every day, you deepen your feelings with the other person. Finally, they start dating in real life and become an adulterous couple. We keep in touch online, and every time we meet in real life, we go on a date, have an extramarital trip, or have sex. Because the other person is not always the person they are dating in real life, some people fall in love with multiple affair partners through SNS.
Meeting on dating sites/apps
This would be an adulterous encounter. It is normal to find someone you like using an affair bulletin board and enjoy dating and sex. Through the Internet, even a housewife who stays at home most of the time except for shopping can easily find a romantic partner of her choice. In many cases, people who meet someone through this process have a one-time affair, but if they think they are a perfect match for each other, there is a risk that they will become an unfaithful couple and have a long-lasting affair.
Of course, some people want to have sex and love, but they don't want to have an affair with a married person or have an affair with someone who has a boyfriend. In that case, in order to be chosen by the person of your choice and meet as many people as possible, married people may pretend to be single and approach you for love.
online game
If you are playing an online game with your lover, how would you feel if your lover falls in love or marries another player while playing the game? Some people experience what is called "pseudo love" through the love/marriage systems and free chat/sticker functions found in MMORPGs and social games. Many simulated relationships are just for fun, but it cannot be said that there are cases where two people who are having fun become serious and start having an affair.
What you should be most careful about is not just online games played on your computer, but now that smartphones are becoming more widespread, social smartphone games can also become a means of finding an affair partner. If you want to conduct a cheating investigation on your lover's phone, don't ignore the friend list in the smartphone game.
PTA/Alumni Association
There are many ways to encounter infidelity. Sometimes your lover may meet an affair partner in a way you can't imagine. For example, a person pretends to be passionate about their child's education and attends a PTA event, but actually turns the PTA into a meeting place for an affair. There is also the risk that they will use the reunion as an excuse to meet up with their classmates and have an affair with their ex-girlfriend. Every time your lover participates in a PTA/alumni party drinking party or activity, you will be in trouble if he or she tries to get you to cheat on you by talking about your goals.
What PTAs and alumni associations have in common is that all the people you meet are acquaintances, and they also have the advantage that many of them are married, so you don't have to worry about the identity of your partner, so it's a great opportunity for people who want to have an affair. And before you commit to an affair, you can judge the personality and preferences of the person you are interested in through the various activities held by the PTA and alumni association. Also, to get your guard down, "○○'s father/mother" and "friend from high school" are also perfect excuses. Therefore, if you don't want your lover to be unfaithful, you should be vigilant and prevent your lover from cheating on you in a variety of ways.
Cheating investigation on how to meet someone who is having an affair
Once you know how to encounter infidelity, when investigating infidelity, you can look for your lover's "means of infidelity." You can check your lover's LINE, block dating apps on your smartphone, and check your browser's browsing history to discover how your lover is cheating on you, and then take measures accordingly. . Of course, in order to resolve the problem of infidelity, it is necessary not only to limit the ways in which they meet, but also to eliminate the lover's desire for infidelity. Therefore, it is most important to understand the psychology of your lover's infidelity and improve your romantic relationship.
