The older sister at the bar is having an affair! ? Cheating and infidelity over alcohol
People say that cheating happens under the influence of alcohol. Scenes where the main character gets drunk and ends up having an affair with someone of the opposite sex are common in adultery dramas. Alcohol and cheating/infidelity are truly friends.
Places that serve alcohol and where cheating is likely to occur are ``drinking bars'' (snack bars). The reason is that through drinks and snacks at a bar, you can easily talk to someone of the opposite sex you are interested in and deepen your romantic feelings. It wouldn't be strange at all if the distance between the two of you was suddenly shortened by alcohol. Also, if you are intoxicated with alcohol, you may not be able to easily refuse an invitation from someone to have an affair. If that's the case, even if you initially want to have an affair, there is a possibility that you end up staying at a love hotel with your partner.
Dimly lit snack bars and dimly lit izakayas are also famous as date spots for unmarried couples. For couples who are concerned about being seen, an izakaya with a bar and private rooms for couples is a stylish and comfortable place to have a conversation, and since it's a restaurant that specializes in alcohol, you can enjoy food that focuses on alcohol to your heart's content. It's a wonderful place for an affair date spot.
The night world is mysterious and is the best chance for unfaithful couples who want to hide their secrets and those who desire to have an affair. Therefore, when the curtain falls on the night, many people go to bars and izakayas to drink and have fun tonight. From now on, I will introduce the cheating/infidelity pattern one by one.
Summary of cheating and extramarital affairs at bars and bars over alcohol
One, do you accidentally cheat? Be wary of water stores where you can drink alcohol.
Not all people who go to bars or izakayas are looking for an affair, but when people let alcohol take over them, they tend to go crazy, become cheating, and become obsessed with affairs between men and women. Even if you don't want to have an affair in the first place, you may be influenced by the open atmosphere of the bar counter, and in a moment of confusion, you may start thinking that the person of the opposite sex next to you is attractive, and you may not be able to control your feelings. Please be careful, as there may be people who try to get you to drink alcohol and then invite you to have an affair, so be careful.
2. Choose a partner from a bar? People who want to have an affair can easily target the opposite sex at Snack.
In addition, a man who is interested in having an affair may find a playmate from a woman at a bar or snack bar, and secretly keep in touch with her. The reason is that for people who want to have an affair, a snack bar at night can be a suitable place to have an affair. Also, among the people who work at bars and snack bars, there are many members who approach rich people not for love, but for money. If the two of you are physically compatible, then such a person would be the perfect partner for your affair.
3. Where do you have secret meetings with your cheating partner? Izakaya is a date place for unfaithful couples.
Why are bars and izakaya popular date places for unfaithful couples who keep their relationships private? In addition to the lighting and alcohol, the izakaya also has a wide variety of food, and the relaxed atmosphere makes it easier for the two of you to discuss things, which can help the two of you get along better. Since there are few opportunities for unfaithful couples to go on dates, an izakaya where it is easy to talk to each other is the best choice if you want to deepen your love to the fullest on a date.
How to deal with your lover's cheating or adultery at a bar/izakaya
1. Stop drinking until you are completely drunk
If you like alcohol, you often have to drink until you're completely drunk. However, drinking until you're completely intoxicated is bad for your health, and is often considered uncool by others and disliked. If your lover continues this bad habit, there is a high possibility that not only will he or she accidentally cheat on you while drunk, but there will be other negative effects as well. As the person closest to you, it would be wiser to persuade those around you and work together to stop your lover from drinking excessively.
2. Stop going to water shops.
Even strong-willed people may end up doing stupid things when they encounter alcohol. If you want to drink good alcohol, you don't need to go to snack bars, which are prone to cheating. Even if you want to hold a drinking party, a stylish and clean restaurant is one of the options. In order to avoid cheating, it is important to avoid places where it is easy to cheat, so if possible, avoid letting your lover go to fishing shops, and if possible, it is better for both of you to avoid contact with anything related to fishing shops. is.
3. Check out the cheating date at the pub
An adulterous couple may choose a particular pub and use this as their "base" for the affair. First of all, why not conduct a cheating investigation and check your lover's LINE, or collect various evidence of cheating from your iPhone or computer? In time, you may even get the chance to obtain the location and time of the affair date and witness the scene of the affair. Now, if you collect conclusive evidence of cheating by taking cheating photos, it will be easy to stop cheating.
Drinking in moderation is important
It's okay to want to drink, but once you start drinking, you can't control yourself and many people become dependent on alcohol. In order to prevent the worst-case scenario of committing an unknown crime due to alcohol and seriously hurting someone close to you, and to maintain your own health, you should avoid drinking too much alcohol. Also, if your partner is struggling with excessive drinking, the solution is to work together to overcome the bad habit.
