It would be very troublesome if your husband or wife cheated on you while you were in love. Everyone wanted a boyfriend/girlfriend who wouldn't cheat, but does such an ideal type really exist? At first, it seems that her husband will never cheat on her, but due to her change of heart, it is not uncommon for her husband to end up cheating on her for reasons that are hard to imagine.
But don't give up. I can't say that you will never cheat, but there are people in this world who tend not to cheat. This article will explain the characteristics of people who don't cheat and how to tell them apart.
Characteristics of a man who doesn't cheat
A man who doesn't have much sex drive
Why did the man start cheating? Generally it's because of sexual desire. If he is not satisfied with sex alone with his girlfriend, or if he becomes sexless due to disagreements or a long-distance relationship, there is a high possibility that a man with a strong sexual desire will turn to cheating.
In other words, if a man is satisfied with sex with his girlfriend, he is less likely to hang out with other women and purposely seek out other women for sex. It's difficult to judge a man's sexual desire just by his appearance, but men with kind and sensitive personalities generally don't seem to have a strong sexual desire.
However, if a man does not have a very strong sexual desire, he may not be very active in romantic relationships between men and women, so while dating such a type, women need to develop a romantic relationship without rushing.
A man who thinks cheating is a hassle
The common means of cheating are to contact the cheating partner by phone, LINE, email, etc., or to meet various people of the opposite sex on SNS. When you meet a beautiful woman, you want to talk to her, go on a date, and eventually have sex, so you end up having an affair. It might be better to say that such a man likes women rather than being a cheater.
After all, it takes a lot of time to deepen your relationship with another person to the point of having an affair. Such men have a lot of energy, so if they get the idea of having an affair, they'll do it right away. If a man who can't control his impulses becomes your boyfriend, not only cheating, but also violence and fights may become commonplace.
On the other hand, even if he has a desire to have an affair with another woman, he doesn't want to act on it because he thinks it's a hassle to contact him. Even if such a man wanted to have an affair, there was no way he would do it.
I'm sure some women think harshly, ``I can't say I'm the type who doesn't cheat just because I have a tendency to cheat even for a moment,'' but if cheating isn't carried out, it's just a wish that won't come true, and it can't be called an act of cheating. . I'm sure there are some men who have no desire to cheat, but those types are less likely to become boyfriends.
a man focused on his goals
A man who works hard at work or a man who works hard at his hobbies, in other words, the type who has his own goals and immerses himself in them, will be busy and focused on his dreams, so he won't have any thoughts of cheating.
Such men are generally honest, calm and cautious, and are often more enthusiastic about work or research than about relationships.
Although he is the type of person who is reliable and doesn't cheat, he also has the flaw that he doesn't place much importance on love, and is sometimes too serious and doesn't show much love. You may not be compatible with women who desire dramatic developments or romantic relationships.
Characteristics of a woman who doesn't cheat
A woman who is satisfied with the present
Because you are not satisfied with your current daily life, romantic relationship, or sexual relationship, you want to receive new stimulation by having an affair with another lover. Some women may use an affair to relieve stress from their current lives. However, if a woman is satisfied with her current life and is happy and doesn't feel lonely at all, even if she is tempted to cheat, she will decide that she has something to lose if she cheats, and will continue to maintain her current happiness. In order to protect himself, he decides to run away from the affair.
unsociable woman
Unlike women who rely on men and have a sense of dependence, lone wolf women can easily live alone. She doesn't care about relationships with other people, so even if her romantic relationship with her boyfriend cools down, she's not the type to immediately feel lonely and move on to other attractive men. Furthermore, lone wolf women may not place much importance on communication, are less likely to relieve stress through cheating, and may be interested in the possibility of cheating even if there is a chance.
However, since she rarely interacts with other people, it is difficult to build a romantic relationship with her. I'm not sociable, so my friendships are narrow and deep. Also, she is not the type to date someone she is not actively interested in, so it is difficult to develop a romance with her from her personal relationships. The man she wants to be her boyfriend needs to have benefits other than sociability.
A woman who has the courage to refuse temptation
In cheating relationships involving women, women may be seduced by an attractive man or coerced by a violent man, resulting in them being swayed into cheating. At that time, if she is a woman who has the courage to refuse the cheating relationship and stick to her own will even if someone else invites her, she will have the ability to resolve the situation on her own. Even if she is coerced, a woman who does not think of being dependent on a man and is able to judge her own situation and be independent is less likely to cheat.
Even the non-cheating type has flaws.
Nowadays, many lovers are suffering from the problem of cheating, so they yearn for a single-minded type who doesn't cheat, and make that their ideal type of boyfriend or girlfriend. However, it would be too naive to choose a boyfriend or girlfriend solely based on her tendency to cheat. Since he is your significant other, you should also focus on his appearance, personality, and compatibility with you, in addition to his tendency to cheat.
